Change The View From What One See's And The Performance Will Change

The truth hurts so I have been told.But some times a lie can hurt just as bad . I guess that is where my aunt would say( put a cover on it.) this phrase has a few meanings. For example Everybody doesn't need to know what the hell you are doing all the time. Or your mouth can stand to use some manners whether your cursing or just bring disrespectful. or perhaps when you are talking to your lover. Remember you are not the only one with feelings no matter how strong you are inside or outside. So that being said you should not say things like, (Can you hurry up already) Or (Dose it feel good like this) and the person is barley working or getting them in the mood . If the person says no your just going in and out or up and down. The truth is your feelings are going to be hurt. What happens if they are saying yes that's it just to get you to finish up or they are using a spank bank in  their head.Your feelings are going to be hurt.
That's why you need to put some effort in you sexual escapade's. This is not a job for just women its a job for men to. If you are clueless in to how. Think of places you would like to go or you may want to try but I urge you not to judge your mate or to reject every suggestion. because it can hurt your relationship faster than it helps. You also need to be fare about your request or desires. I can say that because a lot of men want to have 2 women at once. But he is not willing to share the woman with another man. Believe it or not the same problem happens in a bi-sexual committed relationship.

So with all of that being said it is best to explore and exhaust all  your sexuality with just you and your mate. Role playing can help. But go all out change the atmisphere, find the right music, even the food. scene setters are nice. Now a days you can go on the world wide web and find out how to create these special encounters with your mate. When you are trying to spiceup your sex life you have to put in some work and some effort and please be a little creative. Everything dosen't cost alot of money. You may spend a few dollars, but in the end it will be worth it.
 Before you bring in a third person. Because it can turn into a very one sided situation and not for the greater good. 

How Often Do You Take The Stairs?

I know that a lot of you must be saying that I have really gone crazy now. But I promise I have not. I'm not talking about exercising to lose weight. I'm talking about really taking the stairs and sexercising. Just think of the extra leverage you can get. You are not going to fall off any thing if you are receiving or you are the giver during oral sex. Or if your are so excited that you are just going to  get right into it. Don't twist your face up like that. Hear me out, Lets just say, you like to do it standing up . But the height difference between you makes it difficult. Here is when the stair become a good aid. If your man lies down on the incline. You will be able to ride him and he will be able to penetrate you and his balance won't be thrown off.( Don't judge, I know it can be done.) You know the stairs won't be moving like the bed. Ladies you don't have to be on your knees, lets face it he is stronger than you are so he should be on the bottom.  And if you do it right, who knows you just might lose a pound not like we are trying to.  But you will lose that sexual tension that has been building since dinner. You know what I am talking about now , Don't You. I thought you would.  By the way you know this move is not limited  to the stairs in your house. If the need for a adventure come into play. Or you have this unbelievable urge for a Candy bar or He wants a Cupcake. He is going to need a jacket to rest his head on. While the two of  you  will be enjoying the excitement remember don't get caught by the police. But enjoy your sex life, and you know my model. We are Adults have sex responsibly

I Still Want To Be Sexy! Don't You?

I hear this often it's really nothing new. Women say I try to do things to make him look or say (wow honey you sure do look good today)or (wow what is the special occasion can we go to bed instead?) You get the picture. But why don't the men in our life do the same for us .It's pretty simple, believe it or not he's got you now. And the two of you are in LOVE. Believe it or not when you look good he feels good especially when somebody tells him how good you look. That also makes him look like he is taking good care of you.                                                                                                                     So relax take a deep breath and lets get started.Remember he doesn't see things as you do so lets  start with some thing simple. Buy him a few shirts to replace the one's he wears often and go out and buy him some cologne you think will smell good on him. (remember you got to like it you picked it) Now for no reason at all go to a movie or out to dinner just the two of you. You already know he is going to ask what's going on your answer should be. I just thought I would do something for the man I love. He is gonna look at you at first . He's gonna think that you have a ulterior motive, and he is kinda of right. But not in a negative way.  Men don't like to be told what to do. No more than you do. But If you in a nice and easy and light way you show him that these little things make him look sexy to you he just might get the hint.You can't attack him like some crazed woman or a nagging nightmare. That means don't try to get in the middle of basketball or football games or his card night with the guys. But do try and take the initiative to go for long walks together hold hands, go someplace and have coffee or tea or even a ice cream cone.And remember the phones should not be part of the date. It's the first steps in becoming sexy to each other. But if you don't start with the little things he can;t remember the sweet sexy things he used to do that made you feel all mushy inside.So don't give up, it's not over. It just takes a little recon. But remember if he is trying to please you, please do the same for him.

Wine,Tea , Coffee Or Me, Let's Say Around 3:00

It was such a very nice day. The office was going to be closing early today for a nice long three day weekend. So imagine the surprise when when the call came to meet at this nice restaurant on Washington and Vine. When we arrived the waiter showed us to a cosy table in the center of a bay window, soft white sheer drapes accent with brass tiebacks, soft white vanilla scented candles. The waiter poured 2 glasses of  sweet white wine. Another waiter then placed a plate with warm loafs of rye bread &butter on the table.  He then asked if they would like to change anything on the pre -ordered meal. The gentleman said no, the lady agree. The salad was served then the main course followed. As the waiter departed the table he left a small silver bell and unhooked the sheer drapes for privacy for the couple.
Before they completed their meal the gentleman said to the lady that he wanted her now. She replied right now? he said yes as he pushed the plates and wine out of the way.As the couple hugged,kissed and quietly made love in their private room at the Bertrand. They had never done anything like that before. But it was so beautiful romantic exciting and sexy. They have always been very traditional in the way they made love. When one is a accountant and the other is a physical therapist it seems like they consumed their life with their careers and not the sensitive parts of a marriage life romance.
But as you have read it takes just one afternoon to start a new and welcoming change to your romantic love life. Don't let your career take over your marriage. You may have to work a little harder at it but you will be so thankful you did.