I Still Want To Be Sexy! Don't You?

I hear this often it's really nothing new. Women say I try to do things to make him look or say (wow honey you sure do look good today)or (wow what is the special occasion can we go to bed instead?) You get the picture. But why don't the men in our life do the same for us .It's pretty simple, believe it or not he's got you now. And the two of you are in LOVE. Believe it or not when you look good he feels good especially when somebody tells him how good you look. That also makes him look like he is taking good care of you.                                                                                                                     So relax take a deep breath and lets get started.Remember he doesn't see things as you do so lets  start with some thing simple. Buy him a few shirts to replace the one's he wears often and go out and buy him some cologne you think will smell good on him. (remember you got to like it you picked it) Now for no reason at all go to a movie or out to dinner just the two of you. You already know he is going to ask what's going on your answer should be. I just thought I would do something for the man I love. He is gonna look at you at first . He's gonna think that you have a ulterior motive, and he is kinda of right. But not in a negative way.  Men don't like to be told what to do. No more than you do. But If you in a nice and easy and light way you show him that these little things make him look sexy to you he just might get the hint.You can't attack him like some crazed woman or a nagging nightmare. That means don't try to get in the middle of basketball or football games or his card night with the guys. But do try and take the initiative to go for long walks together hold hands, go someplace and have coffee or tea or even a ice cream cone.And remember the phones should not be part of the date. It's the first steps in becoming sexy to each other. But if you don't start with the little things he can;t remember the sweet sexy things he used to do that made you feel all mushy inside.So don't give up, it's not over. It just takes a little recon. But remember if he is trying to please you, please do the same for him.