Change The View From What One See's And The Performance Will Change

The truth hurts so I have been told.But some times a lie can hurt just as bad . I guess that is where my aunt would say( put a cover on it.) this phrase has a few meanings. For example Everybody doesn't need to know what the hell you are doing all the time. Or your mouth can stand to use some manners whether your cursing or just bring disrespectful. or perhaps when you are talking to your lover. Remember you are not the only one with feelings no matter how strong you are inside or outside. So that being said you should not say things like, (Can you hurry up already) Or (Dose it feel good like this) and the person is barley working or getting them in the mood . If the person says no your just going in and out or up and down. The truth is your feelings are going to be hurt. What happens if they are saying yes that's it just to get you to finish up or they are using a spank bank in  their head.Your feelings are going to be hurt.
That's why you need to put some effort in you sexual escapade's. This is not a job for just women its a job for men to. If you are clueless in to how. Think of places you would like to go or you may want to try but I urge you not to judge your mate or to reject every suggestion. because it can hurt your relationship faster than it helps. You also need to be fare about your request or desires. I can say that because a lot of men want to have 2 women at once. But he is not willing to share the woman with another man. Believe it or not the same problem happens in a bi-sexual committed relationship.

So with all of that being said it is best to explore and exhaust all  your sexuality with just you and your mate. Role playing can help. But go all out change the atmisphere, find the right music, even the food. scene setters are nice. Now a days you can go on the world wide web and find out how to create these special encounters with your mate. When you are trying to spiceup your sex life you have to put in some work and some effort and please be a little creative. Everything dosen't cost alot of money. You may spend a few dollars, but in the end it will be worth it.
 Before you bring in a third person. Because it can turn into a very one sided situation and not for the greater good.