Do We Still Have Chemistry Between Us?

           When you have been in a relationship for so long things are bound to change. That is a given , the question is how much of your relationship can you control? How much of the relationship is inevitable? A lot of what happens in your relationship you can actually control. That's just like the   80 % to 20% ratio. But that is another column. Today we are going to talk about Chemistry. How to gauge your relationship and lifestyle and is it working for the both of you or is it one sided. As superficial as some of these questions may sound. They can have a real powerful impact on your relationship. It can also tell you both more about what you may or may not take for granted in your relationship. Now the only way this is going to work .Is if you are honest with yourself and your mate. Are you ready?
                                                    The Chemistry Test

  1.My partner and I would rather be together alone than with other people.  True      False

 2.My partner and I no longer flirt with each other.                                          True     False

 3.My partner makes me feel needed.                                                                True     False

 4.My partner makes me feel sexy.                                                                    True      False

 5.My partner and I don't hold hands in public                                                  True      False

 6. I am no longer physically attracted to my partner                                        True      False

 7. Sex with my partner is energetic and satisfying                                           True      False

 8.If my partner and I don't have sex every few days I miss it.                         True      False

 9.My partner and I no longer kiss and caress.                                                  True      False

10. I get annoyed when my partner calls me in the middle of the day.             True     False

11.At various times I resent my partner.                                                           True     False

12.I love to give my partner oral pleasure.                                                         True     False

13. My partner dose not look happy to see me any more.                                  True     False

14.My partner and I seem to want different things.                                            True     False

15.My partner and I often says, "I love you"                                                      True     False

     Now be honest with each other this is a way to fix the chemistry you once shared. Face it we all could use some improvement when it's our love ones who we may be hurting. If you answered more questions against your relationship instead of for your relationship. Than you have a problem that needs to be addressed. Don't put it off, Have dinner and talk about what has changed and don't be negative or a bully. It won't help. Having a good understanding about each other is a beautiful thing. That is what makes relationships grow. Good luck!!

      As always have sex responsibly be good to yourself and each other.
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