Wednesday, August 31, 2016
Lets Talk Like Adults: You Can Be Too Comfortable
Lets Talk Like Adults: You Can Be Too Comfortable: So you have been in this relationship for several years and out of no where it seems like you just don't do it for your mate any m...
Lets Talk Like Adults: You Can Be Too Comfortable
Lets Talk Like Adults: You Can Be Too Comfortable: So you have been in this relationship for several years and out of no where it seems like you just don't do it for your mate any m...
Lets Talk Like Adults: You Can Be Too Comfortable
Lets Talk Like Adults: You Can Be Too Comfortable: So you have been in this relationship for several years and out of no where it seems like you just don't do it for your mate any m...
You Can Be Too Comfortable
So you have been in this relationship for several years and out of no where it seems like you just don't do it for your mate any more.
Your probably thinking that they are no longer interested any more. Believe it or not that is not always the case. Often it is that they have no drive or they are just too damn comfortable in their relationship. That they don't feel as if they have work on it or prove anything. Because they have you already. Or you have them, so why should you change? Because nothing stays the exact same it's called the circle of life. I have to tell you no matter how long you are with somebody. You can always improve on your love making skills.
A lot of couples feel like they have been together so long. That sex is not important. People who feel that way could not be more wrong. Some say that they are too old to be performing sex acts. They would be wrong also. Sexuality and desire dose not have a expiration date. It only needs to be rejuvenated. From time to time, so you can feel alive.
The problem is that you get so preoccupied with other things that you think everything is ok. While your mate is dying in the inside. Because they still have that fire and desire inside of them.
You should not let the feeling die. Just because a few things have changed in your life. Age, weight, work, family. or even health. A study was done and they say that a healthy sex life. Is good for your over all heath. You think I'm kidding but I'm not. You should not make it so mundane that you can predict the next move before it is made. Try new things with each other and nothing that would degrade the other person.
There should not be the same tired old signs. That lets your mate know that you want to have sex. Put some form of spontaneity in it. Don't make it seem like it's a job either or a service paid for. So watch how you ask for special attention. Remember, if you like to receive oral sex. Don't you think it would be nice to give it as well as you get it. If your getting it, take some pride in how you give it. Your supposed to be in love with this person. Learn how to please them. Some candy bars say they are not putting that thing in their mouth. Or they don't know how. All I can say to that is learn. You will know how well your doing by their body language.Because you want her to put your thing in her mouth. Some cupcakes say you don't feel right in their mouth or you may choke. You can control the depth and learn what they like you can tell by their body language and if they are trying to force more in than you can handle. Then they don't respect you.
You both need to be more giving of your selves and stop being so damn selfish and demanding. Don't get so comfortable that you forget that. Take pride in what you are sharing with each other. Never think that nobody is not willing to take your place. We are all replaceable, No matter how much or how long we have been loving somebody. That is just life and nobody is exempt.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Your probably thinking that they are no longer interested any more. Believe it or not that is not always the case. Often it is that they have no drive or they are just too damn comfortable in their relationship. That they don't feel as if they have work on it or prove anything. Because they have you already. Or you have them, so why should you change? Because nothing stays the exact same it's called the circle of life. I have to tell you no matter how long you are with somebody. You can always improve on your love making skills.
A lot of couples feel like they have been together so long. That sex is not important. People who feel that way could not be more wrong. Some say that they are too old to be performing sex acts. They would be wrong also. Sexuality and desire dose not have a expiration date. It only needs to be rejuvenated. From time to time, so you can feel alive.
The problem is that you get so preoccupied with other things that you think everything is ok. While your mate is dying in the inside. Because they still have that fire and desire inside of them.
You should not let the feeling die. Just because a few things have changed in your life. Age, weight, work, family. or even health. A study was done and they say that a healthy sex life. Is good for your over all heath. You think I'm kidding but I'm not. You should not make it so mundane that you can predict the next move before it is made. Try new things with each other and nothing that would degrade the other person.
There should not be the same tired old signs. That lets your mate know that you want to have sex. Put some form of spontaneity in it. Don't make it seem like it's a job either or a service paid for. So watch how you ask for special attention. Remember, if you like to receive oral sex. Don't you think it would be nice to give it as well as you get it. If your getting it, take some pride in how you give it. Your supposed to be in love with this person. Learn how to please them. Some candy bars say they are not putting that thing in their mouth. Or they don't know how. All I can say to that is learn. You will know how well your doing by their body language.Because you want her to put your thing in her mouth. Some cupcakes say you don't feel right in their mouth or you may choke. You can control the depth and learn what they like you can tell by their body language and if they are trying to force more in than you can handle. Then they don't respect you.
You both need to be more giving of your selves and stop being so damn selfish and demanding. Don't get so comfortable that you forget that. Take pride in what you are sharing with each other. Never think that nobody is not willing to take your place. We are all replaceable, No matter how much or how long we have been loving somebody. That is just life and nobody is exempt.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, August 10, 2016
Just Because Your Married Dose Not Mean You Are You Will Always See Things The Same
So, let's just put it all the way out there. A lot of people are not happy in the life that they have. On the other hand, some people are. A lot of people feel if they have lived with it this long. Why change it? Some people feel that they don't want to even think about starting over with somebody new. Some even feel that it's too late in the game, to start a new life.
I understand the direction that you all are coming from. But let me give you a little insight. There is something you can do to be happier in your life... All is not lost. You can call it quits. But you have invested a lot in this relationship to just quit. So let's try another approach. Screaming and Yelling and Empty threats about leaving someday is not going to do it. You need something that is going to work right now. Am I Right? Let's try a little self inventory and then do inventory on your mate. Now the only way this is going to work is if you are going to be brutally honest. Not just about one of you but about both of you.
Ok so this is how it works you must put down on one side of the paper all the positive things you do and on the other side all the negative things you know you do whether they know about it or not. Please try not to be petty about the stuff on the list. Now look over your list. Do you have more positive or more negative things on your list. If you have more negative things on your list. Then you have the option to cut your loses and move on. But if you have more positive things on your list, Let's work on how to fix your communication.
Next are you two considerate of each other or do you just assume that they know how much you appreciate them. Because some times a real Thank You and acknowledgement is worth more than the weight of gold. When it comes from the one that loves you. But if you don't express it. It's like getting a cup with a whole in it.
Now some people are just not going to get it no matter what. You can walk around with a sticky note stuck to your head. They still are going to be blind to your needs. You need to find a common ground that you can both meet each other on. So that you can work on what is falling apart.
Remember to talk to them not at them. If you want positive results. Often we have to remind people that the things they do hurt our feelings. They also need to be addressed when they happen. Just remember to do it in private not in the public view. Remember we are trying to fix what's wrong not start a war in public view for the world to see.
If you find that the two of you can't talk it out you need to sit down with a counselor. Not hold grudges for weeks at a time. That doesn't help anybody, because after the week passes you are going to have the same problem. Well, Ms. Rice I hope this helped.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Always Stormy Weather69
I understand the direction that you all are coming from. But let me give you a little insight. There is something you can do to be happier in your life... All is not lost. You can call it quits. But you have invested a lot in this relationship to just quit. So let's try another approach. Screaming and Yelling and Empty threats about leaving someday is not going to do it. You need something that is going to work right now. Am I Right? Let's try a little self inventory and then do inventory on your mate. Now the only way this is going to work is if you are going to be brutally honest. Not just about one of you but about both of you.
Ok so this is how it works you must put down on one side of the paper all the positive things you do and on the other side all the negative things you know you do whether they know about it or not. Please try not to be petty about the stuff on the list. Now look over your list. Do you have more positive or more negative things on your list. If you have more negative things on your list. Then you have the option to cut your loses and move on. But if you have more positive things on your list, Let's work on how to fix your communication.
Next are you two considerate of each other or do you just assume that they know how much you appreciate them. Because some times a real Thank You and acknowledgement is worth more than the weight of gold. When it comes from the one that loves you. But if you don't express it. It's like getting a cup with a whole in it.
Now some people are just not going to get it no matter what. You can walk around with a sticky note stuck to your head. They still are going to be blind to your needs. You need to find a common ground that you can both meet each other on. So that you can work on what is falling apart.
Remember to talk to them not at them. If you want positive results. Often we have to remind people that the things they do hurt our feelings. They also need to be addressed when they happen. Just remember to do it in private not in the public view. Remember we are trying to fix what's wrong not start a war in public view for the world to see.
If you find that the two of you can't talk it out you need to sit down with a counselor. Not hold grudges for weeks at a time. That doesn't help anybody, because after the week passes you are going to have the same problem. Well, Ms. Rice I hope this helped.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Always Stormy Weather69
Wednesday, August 3, 2016
Being Mrs. Jones or Mr. Jones
Isn't it funny how things start off. You are so excited when you know that you are going to spend time with your secret friend. It started off so casual you know small talk some coffee or tea, sharing your interest in different things They seem to be interested in your world. They even make time to hangout with you even when you just have coffee or tea. You send little text to say Good Morning or I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you. At some point in the middle of all this feelings developed. You found yourselves attracted to each other. Maybe it's because they paid you some attention that you are missing from home. What ever the reason is it's nice. Who cares your enjoying having a secret friend. Your enjoying having somebody to hangout with.
Ok, so one thing leads to another and now you find yourself in a relationship with somebody you can share your thoughts with and they don't judge you. Somebody who listens to your views, opinion. Man it's great to have a friend. Who shows you that they notice the small things. That your mate forgets or just overlooks. They notice you changed you hairstyle or that you got a haircut & a shave. Or maybe it's your new nail color, or you got a new tie. No matter somebody noticed it.
When they can't make your coffee date or lunch they remember to call you or text you in enough time that you can change your plans. Wow what a friend.
You remember when your spouse use to be considerate like that. But after 10 years of marriage that has all changed. But we are not talking about who you are married to. We are talking about Mrs. Jones or Mr. Jones. The 2 of you meet everyday at the same café. You know that they will be there. You go for walks and hold hands making all types of plans. To get together real soon. You may only be able to steal a few moments in time. But those few little moments are worth more than seconds in a hour glass. Then over the course of a year things become intimate and you have both crossed the road that will not let you go back to being just friends. You find yourselves wanting to spend more time together than time will allow. So you have to backup and regroup. Before somebody gets hurt.
Now the time has come when you can't seem to find the spare time you once had for each other. Why is that ? You find that the Good morning text that use to greet you is no more. The how are you feeling today has gone. It's funny how this all happen around the same time you stopped having sex. They never forgot to call you when they could not make your coffee date. I'm convinced I know the problem they don't feel the need for your company any longer. Or is it that your relationship is starting to feel like the commitment they have at home. Or Could it be that they have found somebody other than you to spend time with. No matter it's no longer fun. So one day, You both agree to have coffee on Wednesday. But without warning or even a signal in the sky or a text. Only one of you show, and they other doesn't even bother to call. Why did they do that?
Maybe the Sunshine should have been the sign as beautiful as it was that day, that all was not well in the world. Funny they always found time to text you or call if there was going to be a change in plans. Now you did send a text to find out what they where doing. Maybe something was wrong. Funny thing though they never answered you. One could assume but why should they.
As always have sex responsibly. Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Ok, so one thing leads to another and now you find yourself in a relationship with somebody you can share your thoughts with and they don't judge you. Somebody who listens to your views, opinion. Man it's great to have a friend. Who shows you that they notice the small things. That your mate forgets or just overlooks. They notice you changed you hairstyle or that you got a haircut & a shave. Or maybe it's your new nail color, or you got a new tie. No matter somebody noticed it.
When they can't make your coffee date or lunch they remember to call you or text you in enough time that you can change your plans. Wow what a friend.
You remember when your spouse use to be considerate like that. But after 10 years of marriage that has all changed. But we are not talking about who you are married to. We are talking about Mrs. Jones or Mr. Jones. The 2 of you meet everyday at the same café. You know that they will be there. You go for walks and hold hands making all types of plans. To get together real soon. You may only be able to steal a few moments in time. But those few little moments are worth more than seconds in a hour glass. Then over the course of a year things become intimate and you have both crossed the road that will not let you go back to being just friends. You find yourselves wanting to spend more time together than time will allow. So you have to backup and regroup. Before somebody gets hurt.
Now the time has come when you can't seem to find the spare time you once had for each other. Why is that ? You find that the Good morning text that use to greet you is no more. The how are you feeling today has gone. It's funny how this all happen around the same time you stopped having sex. They never forgot to call you when they could not make your coffee date. I'm convinced I know the problem they don't feel the need for your company any longer. Or is it that your relationship is starting to feel like the commitment they have at home. Or Could it be that they have found somebody other than you to spend time with. No matter it's no longer fun. So one day, You both agree to have coffee on Wednesday. But without warning or even a signal in the sky or a text. Only one of you show, and they other doesn't even bother to call. Why did they do that?
Maybe the Sunshine should have been the sign as beautiful as it was that day, that all was not well in the world. Funny they always found time to text you or call if there was going to be a change in plans. Now you did send a text to find out what they where doing. Maybe something was wrong. Funny thing though they never answered you. One could assume but why should they.
As always have sex responsibly. Love Always Stormy Weather 69
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