You Can Be Too Comfortable

      So you have been in this relationship for several years and out of no where it seems like you just don't do it for your mate any more.
      Your probably thinking that they are no longer interested any more. Believe it or not that is not always the case. Often it is that they have no drive or they are just too damn comfortable in their relationship. That they don't feel as if they have work on it or prove anything. Because they have you already. Or you have them, so why should you change? Because nothing stays the exact same it's called the circle of life. I have to tell you no matter how long you are with somebody. You can always improve on your love making skills.
         A lot of couples feel like they have been together so long. That sex is not important. People who feel that way could not be more wrong. Some say that they are too old to be performing sex acts. They would be wrong also. Sexuality and desire dose not have a expiration date. It only needs to be rejuvenated. From time to time, so you can feel alive.
        The problem is that you get so preoccupied with other things that you think everything is ok. While your mate is dying in the inside. Because they still have that fire and desire inside of them.
You should not let the feeling die. Just because a few things have changed in your life. Age, weight, work, family. or even health. A study was done and they say that a healthy sex life. Is good for your over all heath. You think I'm kidding but I'm not. You should not make it so mundane that you can predict the next move before it is made. Try new things with each other and nothing that would degrade the other person.
          There should not be the same tired old signs. That lets your mate know that you want to have sex. Put some form of spontaneity in it. Don't make it seem like it's a job either or a service paid for.  So watch how you ask for special attention.  Remember, if you like to receive oral sex. Don't you think it would be nice to give it as well as you get it. If your getting it, take some pride in how you give it. Your supposed to be in love with this person. Learn how to please them. Some candy bars say they are not putting that thing in their mouth. Or they don't know how. All I can say to that is learn.  You will know how well your doing by their body language.Because you want her to put your thing in her mouth. Some cupcakes say you don't feel right in their mouth or you may choke. You can control the depth and learn what they like you can tell by their body language and if they are trying to force more in than you can handle. Then they don't respect you.
             You both need to be more giving of your selves and stop being so damn selfish and demanding. Don't get so comfortable that you forget that. Take pride in what you are sharing with each other. Never think that nobody is not willing to take your place. We are all replaceable, No matter how much or how long we have been loving somebody. That is just life and nobody is exempt.

                  As Always Have Sex Responsibly 
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