Isn't it funny how things start off. You are so excited when you know that you are going to spend time with your secret friend. It started off so casual you know small talk some coffee or tea, sharing your interest in different things They seem to be interested in your world. They even make time to hangout with you even when you just have coffee or tea. You send little text to say Good Morning or I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you. At some point in the middle of all this feelings developed. You found yourselves attracted to each other. Maybe it's because they paid you some attention that you are missing from home. What ever the reason is it's nice. Who cares your enjoying having a secret friend. Your enjoying having somebody to hangout with.
Ok, so one thing leads to another and now you find yourself in a relationship with somebody you can share your thoughts with and they don't judge you. Somebody who listens to your views, opinion. Man it's great to have a friend. Who shows you that they notice the small things. That your mate forgets or just overlooks. They notice you changed you hairstyle or that you got a haircut & a shave. Or maybe it's your new nail color, or you got a new tie. No matter somebody noticed it.
When they can't make your coffee date or lunch they remember to call you or text you in enough time that you can change your plans. Wow what a friend.
You remember when your spouse use to be considerate like that. But after 10 years of marriage that has all changed. But we are not talking about who you are married to. We are talking about Mrs. Jones or Mr. Jones. The 2 of you meet everyday at the same café. You know that they will be there. You go for walks and hold hands making all types of plans. To get together real soon. You may only be able to steal a few moments in time. But those few little moments are worth more than seconds in a hour glass. Then over the course of a year things become intimate and you have both crossed the road that will not let you go back to being just friends. You find yourselves wanting to spend more time together than time will allow. So you have to backup and regroup. Before somebody gets hurt.
Now the time has come when you can't seem to find the spare time you once had for each other. Why is that ? You find that the Good morning text that use to greet you is no more. The how are you feeling today has gone. It's funny how this all happen around the same time you stopped having sex. They never forgot to call you when they could not make your coffee date. I'm convinced I know the problem they don't feel the need for your company any longer. Or is it that your relationship is starting to feel like the commitment they have at home. Or Could it be that they have found somebody other than you to spend time with. No matter it's no longer fun. So one day, You both agree to have coffee on Wednesday. But without warning or even a signal in the sky or a text. Only one of you show, and they other doesn't even bother to call. Why did they do that?
Maybe the Sunshine should have been the sign as beautiful as it was that day, that all was not well in the world. Funny they always found time to text you or call if there was going to be a change in plans. Now you did send a text to find out what they where doing. Maybe something was wrong. Funny thing though they never answered you. One could assume but why should they.
As always have sex responsibly. Love Always Stormy Weather 69
I agree
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