When you think of us and Our Tango Fantasies what comes to mind ? Would you say that most fantasies are more about you or more about me? Please make sure you think about your answers. Before you answer the questions ,you don't want to scare your mate. Nor make them feel like they are not enough for you or you for them. The answers can only be You or Me . Remember there are no wrong answers. Have fun (smile)
1. Getting tied up
2. Tying someone up
3. Role-playing
4. Domination
5. Voyeurism
6. Reindeer games ( anal)
7. Tango time in public place
8. Striptease
9. Pretending we're strangers
10. Swinging
11. Using blindfolds
12.Watching porn together
13. Using a vibrator together
14. Incorporating condiments
15. Menage `a trios
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Thursday, December 21, 2017
How Do You View Our Tango Life
Well I often get asked about The Tango Quiz and when was I going to post one. So I thought that now would be just as good of a time as any. So here are a few tango time questions. How would you describe Your Tango Life. Your answers can only have 1 of 3 answers.
Which are, Too much / Not enough / Just right.
1. How do you feel about the number of times we have Tango time each week?
2. How do you feel about your level of role-playing?
3. How do you feel about the frequency of oral tango / desktop we have?
4. How do you feel about how much lingerie is worn?
5. How's my level of general, everyday affection toward you?
6. How do you feel about how often I give you a massages?
7. How are we doing with trying new things sexually in general?
8. How's our level of experimenting with different positions ?
9. How do you feel about how often you initiate tango?
10. How do you feel about how often I initiate tango?
Now as I said you can only pick 1 of 3 answers for each question. There is no right or wrong answer what you are trying to do is get a better understanding of your mate and how they may view you. Hopefully your answers will encourage you, to do better in the Tango Time you share and to not be so critical of your mate. I hope you enjoy. Please feel free to make comments. And checkout, Our Tango Fantasies Quiz.
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Which are, Too much / Not enough / Just right.
1. How do you feel about the number of times we have Tango time each week?
2. How do you feel about your level of role-playing?
3. How do you feel about the frequency of oral tango / desktop we have?
4. How do you feel about how much lingerie is worn?
5. How's my level of general, everyday affection toward you?
6. How do you feel about how often I give you a massages?
7. How are we doing with trying new things sexually in general?
8. How's our level of experimenting with different positions ?
9. How do you feel about how often you initiate tango?
10. How do you feel about how often I initiate tango?
Now as I said you can only pick 1 of 3 answers for each question. There is no right or wrong answer what you are trying to do is get a better understanding of your mate and how they may view you. Hopefully your answers will encourage you, to do better in the Tango Time you share and to not be so critical of your mate. I hope you enjoy. Please feel free to make comments. And checkout, Our Tango Fantasies Quiz.
As always have sex responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Thursday, November 2, 2017
Is The Change Worth It ?
It's So funny how things change when You decide what is good for me and I do what is Best for Me . You see , I have found that I have truly given you too much power and control over what is best for me. As if you know me better than I know myself . I mean really? You say how you like my hair, what type of clothes I should wear. The way and when we should have Tango time . Among all the other things that I choose to do for you. I guess this is also the reason why we can't talk anymore. But for the life of me I can't figure out why I have allowed you to do it for so long. You know at first I thought that I could be slipping on my drag. Or maybe I just was falling on my Getty Up. You Know, Not polishing My Brass. So I looked at what you said ,as away of telling me. To tighten up my thang. But as time moved on as I said you started changing the very things that made me be Me. You where no longer happy with the person you met so much so that instead of excepting me. You decided to change me into who you wanted. Never mind that the person you said you loved was very content with whom they have grown to be. I thought that you fell in love with that person.
At least that is what I thought. I mean you said you loved me . But could it be true? You where only in like with me and in love with the person you where trying to create in my being. I don't know how this has gotten started . But I'm determined to make it stop. Because the more I look at the person I have become to please you. The less I see of myself. I was always told that you must give of yourself in a marriage. So you can both be happy. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership between 2 people. Meaning that both of you should be giving of yourself to please your mate. Do the things that I like and I do the things you like. You should be complimenting each other. What ever happen to the things that once brought us both so much joy and happiness. I know things change people change. But if you truly love me, as I love you. We should be bringing out the Best in each other.But it should never be to the point that one losses one's self. That is not Love that is a Dictatorship. Or like master and servant. That is not love or like . I guess that is why we are no longer happy in our relationship. Or why we no longer talk.
Before we start trying to change the people we say we care and love . Look at them real close and make sure it's worth the change. You may very well be taking away the core of the person. That made you want to be with them in the first place. Just Something to think about.
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At least that is what I thought. I mean you said you loved me . But could it be true? You where only in like with me and in love with the person you where trying to create in my being. I don't know how this has gotten started . But I'm determined to make it stop. Because the more I look at the person I have become to please you. The less I see of myself. I was always told that you must give of yourself in a marriage. So you can both be happy. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership between 2 people. Meaning that both of you should be giving of yourself to please your mate. Do the things that I like and I do the things you like. You should be complimenting each other. What ever happen to the things that once brought us both so much joy and happiness. I know things change people change. But if you truly love me, as I love you. We should be bringing out the Best in each other.But it should never be to the point that one losses one's self. That is not Love that is a Dictatorship. Or like master and servant. That is not love or like . I guess that is why we are no longer happy in our relationship. Or why we no longer talk.
Before we start trying to change the people we say we care and love . Look at them real close and make sure it's worth the change. You may very well be taking away the core of the person. That made you want to be with them in the first place. Just Something to think about.
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Friday, October 13, 2017
Lets Talk Like Adults: That 1 Tango Time That Will Always Standout
Lets Talk Like Adults: That 1 Tango Time That Will Always Standout: I must first start off by saying that for some, Tango Time is just great every time they do it. But not for the reasons you may...
That 1 Tango Time That Will Always Standout
I must first start off by saying that for some, Tango Time is just great every time they do it. But not for the reasons you may think. For some it started off great and then died off. For some others they are still looking for that ultimate experience. So before we start passing judgment on techniques . I need you to understand that there are some Cupcakes & Candy bars, that sees nothing wrong with their performances. But if you ask their counterparts when they are not present you may very well get a somewhat different viewpoint. That you did not get when they where together. It's like that old saying. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Or there are no fireworks like the 4th of July. But moving right along.
For those of you that can remember when Tango Time was so beautiful and fulfilling and now they just don't seem to hit the mark. Maybe this would be a real good time to make some open book or movie guide references. So this is when you say Stormy what are you talking about? Let me give you some clues. Do you remember reading books like Zane or 50 Shades Of Grey. How about 50 First Dates or Ghost. Do you see where I'm going with this? If you have never read any of them or seen any of the movies. Than maybe this weekend would be a good time to check them out.
When was the last time you and your mate went for a walk together? How about Instead of one of you walking the dog. How about the 2 of you walk the dog together. It would be nice if the 2 of you could go out for coffee/tea , hold hands and just walk and talk. This would be a way to be affectionate and romantic without the Tango Time. If you do it right , it may lead to Tango Time.
If you feel like you can use a little brushing up on your skills. You can be sure that your mate may very well feel the same way. But they may not know how to say it . So learn how to add some adventure in your life. But start off with reachable goals then see where and how you can improve on your skills. Often people know how to do The Tango. But they don't know how to connect with their mate. Or how to be attentive ,romantic or even passionate. This is because they are not reading their partners signals. They are not trying to see what they want . They are assuming things. That is always a fast way to miscommunication which leads to no connection. Which leads to not enjoying intimacy. Which leads to no Great Tango Time. Stop thinking about what you want and pay attention to what their bodies say they want. I promise you will thank me in the morning.
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Love Stormy Weather 69
For those of you that can remember when Tango Time was so beautiful and fulfilling and now they just don't seem to hit the mark. Maybe this would be a real good time to make some open book or movie guide references. So this is when you say Stormy what are you talking about? Let me give you some clues. Do you remember reading books like Zane or 50 Shades Of Grey. How about 50 First Dates or Ghost. Do you see where I'm going with this? If you have never read any of them or seen any of the movies. Than maybe this weekend would be a good time to check them out.
When was the last time you and your mate went for a walk together? How about Instead of one of you walking the dog. How about the 2 of you walk the dog together. It would be nice if the 2 of you could go out for coffee/tea , hold hands and just walk and talk. This would be a way to be affectionate and romantic without the Tango Time. If you do it right , it may lead to Tango Time.
If you feel like you can use a little brushing up on your skills. You can be sure that your mate may very well feel the same way. But they may not know how to say it . So learn how to add some adventure in your life. But start off with reachable goals then see where and how you can improve on your skills. Often people know how to do The Tango. But they don't know how to connect with their mate. Or how to be attentive ,romantic or even passionate. This is because they are not reading their partners signals. They are not trying to see what they want . They are assuming things. That is always a fast way to miscommunication which leads to no connection. Which leads to not enjoying intimacy. Which leads to no Great Tango Time. Stop thinking about what you want and pay attention to what their bodies say they want. I promise you will thank me in the morning.
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Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, October 4, 2017
Relationships Necessity Or Luxury
In life nothing last forever. Sometimes you even get the chance to correct a mistake. Some have to get with somebody else and try again. But on some real Grown-up ish. You must be more aware of you position and what it entails. So people get Luxury Sweets and Necessity Sweets.
When your not #1 and your #2 . You need to fall back and find out what is your job. What is the best way to execute your job. When you go into this unspoken contract if you will. Know what is expected of you. So you don't react in a crazy way when you want something or when they are wanting something from you. So back to you being so grown-up if you will. Some of you can have it all at home. But because you are greedy, you want more than what is allotted to you in your relationship at home. So you will say and do what ever it takes to get more sweets. This is the Brutal Truth. Marital status is not even a part of the equation this can be true if your dating.
So lets be open and frank. If all you want is Tango time because your not getting it at from your Sweets say so. If you just want or need somebody to talk to because your main Sweets don't have time for you say so.
But when your not #1 and your really #2 you need to fall back and enjoy your time when you can get it. For however long you can get it. On some real Grown-up ish. When you start forgetting the position you play and start acting like your #1. Remember there are some responsibilities that come with that job. It may very well be above your Employment status or your Pay Grade. If your second relationship or your main relationship has moved to a different stock level than what it was in the beginning. It may very well be time to sit down and discuss that unspoken contract and see if it can be revised. But keep in mind that with great power in relations comes great responsibilities.
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When your not #1 and your #2 . You need to fall back and find out what is your job. What is the best way to execute your job. When you go into this unspoken contract if you will. Know what is expected of you. So you don't react in a crazy way when you want something or when they are wanting something from you. So back to you being so grown-up if you will. Some of you can have it all at home. But because you are greedy, you want more than what is allotted to you in your relationship at home. So you will say and do what ever it takes to get more sweets. This is the Brutal Truth. Marital status is not even a part of the equation this can be true if your dating.
So lets be open and frank. If all you want is Tango time because your not getting it at from your Sweets say so. If you just want or need somebody to talk to because your main Sweets don't have time for you say so.
But when your not #1 and your really #2 you need to fall back and enjoy your time when you can get it. For however long you can get it. On some real Grown-up ish. When you start forgetting the position you play and start acting like your #1. Remember there are some responsibilities that come with that job. It may very well be above your Employment status or your Pay Grade. If your second relationship or your main relationship has moved to a different stock level than what it was in the beginning. It may very well be time to sit down and discuss that unspoken contract and see if it can be revised. But keep in mind that with great power in relations comes great responsibilities.
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Wednesday, September 20, 2017
Lets Talk Like Adults: Just When You Think A Relationship Is Perfect
Lets Talk Like Adults: Just When You Think A Relationship Is Perfect: So you are feeling like things are just off a bit. But you can't seem to put your finger on what it is. Believe it or not this h...
Just When You Think A Relationship Is Perfect
So you are feeling like things are just off a bit. But you can't seem to put your finger on what it is. Believe it or not this happens to a lot of people in relationships. Every day can not be smooth as silk. Very often you need a few creases in your satin, silk or lace Love Life. That is how we are able to keep the balance. It's when you try to make believe that everyday is like your favorite desert. That's when we run into problems. You see in the real world. Relationships are more like your major holidays. No matter how far in advance you plan something always seems to be forgotten. Or the meal can be perfect, but somehow you don't have enough of something. Or maybe it's the weather, and now somebody just can't make it to celebrate with you and the family. You could have been hoping for one thing and got something else. Or maybe you just spent more than you should have or you planed on spending.
Do you see how and why I say relationships are like major holidays? Relationships are special and complicated but are very much a part of life regardless of the type. So you have been in this relationship for a while. You still love this person . But you feel like you are no longer connected or have the same interest. You may even feel as if you are doing most of the compromising. And your mate seems to careless about your relationship. So , What do you do? See at this point you may feel like you have done all you can. Let me tell you, You have not done all that you can. Because if you did . You would not still be trying to figure out how to fix it. You would have thrown in the towel. And started to enjoy another major holiday.
So that leaves me to believe that you want to work on the relationship you are still in . You know give it the old college try. Am I right? Yes I am. So think about it from the other person's view point. What is it they want in the relationship. Are they getting everything they want from you? Before you say yes . really think about it. You may find that in the relationship department . You are not the person you started off being.Maybe you may want to give them a little bit more of yourself before you just throw in the towel. Try being a little more sensitive to their needs. But the number 1 thing you need to do is talk to them. Preferably some place public so you are sure you can both talk . And you won't get loud and embarrass yourselves. That way you can both voice your own viewpoint of the relationship. Remember to listen as well as talk. Or it will be a waste of time.
But know you only get out of a relationship what you put in them. They can only grow if you take care of them. You may not always the same results, but you have to try them out to see if you will get what you want.
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Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Do you see how and why I say relationships are like major holidays? Relationships are special and complicated but are very much a part of life regardless of the type. So you have been in this relationship for a while. You still love this person . But you feel like you are no longer connected or have the same interest. You may even feel as if you are doing most of the compromising. And your mate seems to careless about your relationship. So , What do you do? See at this point you may feel like you have done all you can. Let me tell you, You have not done all that you can. Because if you did . You would not still be trying to figure out how to fix it. You would have thrown in the towel. And started to enjoy another major holiday.
So that leaves me to believe that you want to work on the relationship you are still in . You know give it the old college try. Am I right? Yes I am. So think about it from the other person's view point. What is it they want in the relationship. Are they getting everything they want from you? Before you say yes . really think about it. You may find that in the relationship department . You are not the person you started off being.Maybe you may want to give them a little bit more of yourself before you just throw in the towel. Try being a little more sensitive to their needs. But the number 1 thing you need to do is talk to them. Preferably some place public so you are sure you can both talk . And you won't get loud and embarrass yourselves. That way you can both voice your own viewpoint of the relationship. Remember to listen as well as talk. Or it will be a waste of time.
But know you only get out of a relationship what you put in them. They can only grow if you take care of them. You may not always the same results, but you have to try them out to see if you will get what you want.
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Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, July 26, 2017
Love Is Priceless And Expensive But Money Can't Buy It
When you have been with somebody for so many years, you may find yourself putting their needs and wants ahead of your own. Often when you have a family to provide for it's very easy to forget about your feelings and needs. That is why, I thought it would be a good idea to challenge you . Look at your life and look at how much of yourself you have given to other people. Now I ask you have you given yourself half of what you have given to others? Do you get a quarter back of what you have given away?
Please don't take this the wrong way. I understand that loving your family, your mates and children is and can be a very important of your life. But you must find the time and the means to take care of what should be the most important person in your life . Which is You, you can't give so much that you don't give to your own spirit your soul and the very being that makes you.
Never forget, Everybody goes through some rough times once in a while. And, though it's hard to keep in perspective some times. It's those times that make people grow and become stronger. When you love someone you give them Power & Strength and in return You should receive the same. Love lesson is that changes aren't necessarily bad. Sometimes they can be for the best. What's important is learning how to deal with the inevitable changes that come to all people in the days of our lives. But always remember to love self first. So you may know the priceless value of a expensive gift you share with others.
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Love Stormy Weather 69
Please don't take this the wrong way. I understand that loving your family, your mates and children is and can be a very important of your life. But you must find the time and the means to take care of what should be the most important person in your life . Which is You, you can't give so much that you don't give to your own spirit your soul and the very being that makes you.
Never forget, Everybody goes through some rough times once in a while. And, though it's hard to keep in perspective some times. It's those times that make people grow and become stronger. When you love someone you give them Power & Strength and in return You should receive the same. Love lesson is that changes aren't necessarily bad. Sometimes they can be for the best. What's important is learning how to deal with the inevitable changes that come to all people in the days of our lives. But always remember to love self first. So you may know the priceless value of a expensive gift you share with others.
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Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, July 12, 2017
Show Me Love Through Your Eyes
When you have been with a person for sometime you may get lost or forget what Love is. Having to be reminded of things is not all bad.Not caring to remember and not making a conscious effort to remember is what's bad. To love someone is one of life's greatest gifts. But to loved by someone is a priceless present. To really and truly love someone is a experience every other emotion outside of love and still come back to love.
Real love is to love someone, feel hurt or pain and be able to overcome it and then forget about it. Never to be spoke of again. To love someone is to know that sex was not and can not be the base of your love.. To love someone is to realize that the other person is not perfect. Nor can you ever be perfect. It's being able to see their rough parts, But put emphasis on the parts you love about them. And not forgetting to proudly show them you accept all of who they are as a individual.
To love someone is to lay a strong base for your feelings. But leave room for some fluctuation, Because to feel the same way all the time.You would leave no room for growth, experience or learning. To love someone is to be strong and willing to accepting New ideas in fact, It's knowing that a person will not stay the same and things can change.We call it Life. But it is also called Love. That is how we live in this great world.
To Love someone is to give until your heart aches,The greatest gift shared between 2 people are Trust, Understanding, which comes from Love.
So when you say that you love someone be sure that you are prepared for all that it entails. Make sure that you mean it from your soul not just lustful feelings. Just remember that those feelings can fade. You want love to last past all the glitz and glamour of lustful feelings.
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Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Real love is to love someone, feel hurt or pain and be able to overcome it and then forget about it. Never to be spoke of again. To love someone is to know that sex was not and can not be the base of your love.. To love someone is to realize that the other person is not perfect. Nor can you ever be perfect. It's being able to see their rough parts, But put emphasis on the parts you love about them. And not forgetting to proudly show them you accept all of who they are as a individual.
To love someone is to lay a strong base for your feelings. But leave room for some fluctuation, Because to feel the same way all the time.You would leave no room for growth, experience or learning. To love someone is to be strong and willing to accepting New ideas in fact, It's knowing that a person will not stay the same and things can change.We call it Life. But it is also called Love. That is how we live in this great world.
To Love someone is to give until your heart aches,The greatest gift shared between 2 people are Trust, Understanding, which comes from Love.
So when you say that you love someone be sure that you are prepared for all that it entails. Make sure that you mean it from your soul not just lustful feelings. Just remember that those feelings can fade. You want love to last past all the glitz and glamour of lustful feelings.
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Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, June 14, 2017
The Back Bend Bonus
We all know that the Tango is a great form of exercise. We also know that act of melting sweets is also an art that requires you to perfect your skills.To make your sweetness feel like they are the very best at what they do . Whether you are the giver or the receiver. So if you are a little bored or you are feeling a little adventurous. Try adding this technique in your arsenal.
It's called The Back Bend. It can be done if your a Cupcake or a Candy bar. If you want to change the way you melt your lovers sweets try this. Have your sweets take a nice shower, then have them get on the bed. Cupcakes this position is great if you have difficulty with deep throat techniques. So have your sweets Candy bar Or Cupcake get on their knees at the corner of the bed . Then have them bend back and hold their legs right above the ankle.. Tell them to rest their head back. Now close their eyes.
As you put a pillow on the floor. Now start from their neck and give them small kisses .From their neck down the center of their chest.As you move downward to their basement .You kneel down in front of them. As they are still bent in that position . Put their sweets in your mouth as they enjoy this fine holiday, until they melt in complete pleasure.
Once that happens help them lay down completely. Because after a technique like that they may become very lightheaded. Give them a few minutes before you try doing the Tango.
This is highly pleasurable technique for most Candy bars and Cupcakes a like. So remember to remind your sweets to enjoy the pleasure and go slow. So that you both may enjoy the adventure. Enjoy and as always have sex responsibly.
Love Always Stormy Weather 69
It's called The Back Bend. It can be done if your a Cupcake or a Candy bar. If you want to change the way you melt your lovers sweets try this. Have your sweets take a nice shower, then have them get on the bed. Cupcakes this position is great if you have difficulty with deep throat techniques. So have your sweets Candy bar Or Cupcake get on their knees at the corner of the bed . Then have them bend back and hold their legs right above the ankle.. Tell them to rest their head back. Now close their eyes.
As you put a pillow on the floor. Now start from their neck and give them small kisses .From their neck down the center of their chest.As you move downward to their basement .You kneel down in front of them. As they are still bent in that position . Put their sweets in your mouth as they enjoy this fine holiday, until they melt in complete pleasure.
Once that happens help them lay down completely. Because after a technique like that they may become very lightheaded. Give them a few minutes before you try doing the Tango.
This is highly pleasurable technique for most Candy bars and Cupcakes a like. So remember to remind your sweets to enjoy the pleasure and go slow. So that you both may enjoy the adventure. Enjoy and as always have sex responsibly.
Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, May 31, 2017
Why Are We Trying To Change Each Other
Do you remember when we first got together? You said how beautiful I was and how you admired my strength. You told me that with a woman like me in your life that there was nothing that we could not do together . Do you remember how we made love as if that was all we needed to live. We spoke of future plans and our like together. You as My Candy bar and I as Your Cupcake. Wow, what plans we had.
Our Love was so fresh and new. We did such kind things for each other. We even thought that our Lil quirts where funny.We laughed at our corny jokes. We use to make running jokes about how we didn't want to be like some other people we see . You remember the ones that seem to be soooo unhappy They never seem to smile at each other . As if they lost what made them happy. Do you remember that?
As I look back over the years we are not abusive to each other. We don't argue or fight. We rarely dis agree on things. But we do seem to have become emotionally disconnected.I'm starting to feel like a possession instead of your life partner. So can we try to start a new lets do a inventory of our relationship before it's too late and then we no longer like each other.
Instead of minimizing our differences let us maximize them. Instead of denying that you are better at this and I am better at that. Let us take full advantage of our special skills and recognize the weaknesses in order either to work on them. Or to turn to what we do best. I love you. I won't go through what each of us are good at . Nor will I say how bad we do things that don't come naturally to us.
I show you how much I love you , You tell me that you love me. I could not do well what you do so well. Nor could you do what I do. I like me as I am and you as you are. Can we please come to a better understanding of each other. And get back to the loving people I know we are.
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Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Our Love was so fresh and new. We did such kind things for each other. We even thought that our Lil quirts where funny.We laughed at our corny jokes. We use to make running jokes about how we didn't want to be like some other people we see . You remember the ones that seem to be soooo unhappy They never seem to smile at each other . As if they lost what made them happy. Do you remember that?
As I look back over the years we are not abusive to each other. We don't argue or fight. We rarely dis agree on things. But we do seem to have become emotionally disconnected.I'm starting to feel like a possession instead of your life partner. So can we try to start a new lets do a inventory of our relationship before it's too late and then we no longer like each other.
Instead of minimizing our differences let us maximize them. Instead of denying that you are better at this and I am better at that. Let us take full advantage of our special skills and recognize the weaknesses in order either to work on them. Or to turn to what we do best. I love you. I won't go through what each of us are good at . Nor will I say how bad we do things that don't come naturally to us.
I show you how much I love you , You tell me that you love me. I could not do well what you do so well. Nor could you do what I do. I like me as I am and you as you are. Can we please come to a better understanding of each other. And get back to the loving people I know we are.
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Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, May 17, 2017
Sexstanding
When you have been in a relationship of any kind you at some point come to a common ground. Where you can be yourself and be apart of the person,You are with.Without losing yourself. In so many couples when you have had them for so long. You may find that you are in tuned to them or in sink with them that without even thinking about it you move as a single person at times. It often happen with identical twin. They move in a mirror like image at times. But that is, because from the time of conception until they are born and well into school age. They learn everything together. Even if one learns a little faster than the other.
Well you may not believe it, but the same can be true for people in relationships.When you are in tuned with each other you can and may very well move as if you are dancing. Some couples behave in a manner like they can read the other persons mind. But that is not it at all. They have a pattern or blueprint that their partner pay close attention to them for so long that it becomes second nature to them. They are not even aware that they are doing it.
The same thing can and will work during your Tango time. Your thinking at this moment that I mean a repetitive act. I am not . That would be boring , like watching paint dry. What I am speaking of is not repetition but the reading of the body language. That is used to express how you feel and what you feel. It's been used for many years in different circles. You can see it on other What is the rhythm their heart making for you to dance to? Although you may like the sound that you want to hear out of their mouth. Soon that sound can become like your favorite song you play on the radio. That does not take a skill.that is just a finger that turns a knob.
You want to be on the same accord with your mate and they should want to be that way with you. So, what is the Best way to do that? Get in tuned with them and pay attention you may surprise yourself on how much you know and what you don't know. It's not like how they take their coffee or tea. So go and start Sexstanding your mate. It's a Beautiful thing and you just might find out you like what you've learned. As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Well you may not believe it, but the same can be true for people in relationships.When you are in tuned with each other you can and may very well move as if you are dancing. Some couples behave in a manner like they can read the other persons mind. But that is not it at all. They have a pattern or blueprint that their partner pay close attention to them for so long that it becomes second nature to them. They are not even aware that they are doing it.
The same thing can and will work during your Tango time. Your thinking at this moment that I mean a repetitive act. I am not . That would be boring , like watching paint dry. What I am speaking of is not repetition but the reading of the body language. That is used to express how you feel and what you feel. It's been used for many years in different circles. You can see it on other What is the rhythm their heart making for you to dance to? Although you may like the sound that you want to hear out of their mouth. Soon that sound can become like your favorite song you play on the radio. That does not take a skill.that is just a finger that turns a knob.
You want to be on the same accord with your mate and they should want to be that way with you. So, what is the Best way to do that? Get in tuned with them and pay attention you may surprise yourself on how much you know and what you don't know. It's not like how they take their coffee or tea. So go and start Sexstanding your mate. It's a Beautiful thing and you just might find out you like what you've learned. As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, May 10, 2017
Is It Too Late To Learn Something New ?
I use to always think that if you didn't learn some things when you were young. You were a lost cause. Because nobody is going to take the time to teach you when they have gone so far past that time in their life.But life ,time and age have proven it to be a fact that you are never too old to learn . Take this couple for an example. This couple had both been married to somebody else in their prior life. But there were a lot of things that they have never done. One of them because there was no need to and besides they had heard such crazy stories. That he was not about to try it. She on the other hand has heard such stories herself. In fact she was convinced that she would never do them. But as one gets older they will find that they are not all factual. In fact a lot of them where just that stories and no truth to them at all. So how do you move forward in your new life ? Here's a better question, How do you tell your mate that you would like to try something new during your Tango Time? Well from experience It's best to talk about it when you are fully dressed and not when your about to have Tango Time. You want to feel at ease when talking . Not uncomfortable or aggressive.and definitely do not make it all about your wants. Be open minded about what they want.
A couple who can talk openly about what they may like or dislike in their Tango Time. Can and will make your Tango Time,That much more enjoyable to both of you. You may even find that you like some of the things they like. Just like these two (2) often talked about sexual experimental acts like anal sex and oral sex . Believe it or not not everybody is into either of them which can make it very difficult to talk about. So when you are talking to your mate. Be mindful and considerate of their feelings.
Remember to treat people ,the way you want to be treated. As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Always
Stormy Weather 69
A couple who can talk openly about what they may like or dislike in their Tango Time. Can and will make your Tango Time,That much more enjoyable to both of you. You may even find that you like some of the things they like. Just like these two (2) often talked about sexual experimental acts like anal sex and oral sex . Believe it or not not everybody is into either of them which can make it very difficult to talk about. So when you are talking to your mate. Be mindful and considerate of their feelings.
Remember to treat people ,the way you want to be treated. As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Always
Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, April 12, 2017
As Much As I Love You
When you are in a relationship with somebody. You may find that over the years. Your concerns about their welfare and well being and needs. Have become more important in your day to day activity. Than you would like or might want to admit to it being.
We say that we do all these things because we love our mates. Nobody is doubting your love. But what ever happened to the self love, or caring about what is important to you or your needs. Well , I'll tell you what happened. It's the same thing that happens when you become a parent. Your protection, admiration,love and security for them becomes your main focus. Everything else including self preservation and personal needs becomes obsolete. Because you will do anything and everything to make sure their needs are met and that they are happy.
But what happened when you look in a mirror? You feel like you have given everything to the people you care about. But what about your needs. You have spoiled your love ones so much. That because you show such joy in their happiness. Nobody even notice that you are unhappy.Nobody even notices that you are in need of something. One would think that it would be easy to see, that you want and need the same love and attention that you give your mate.
So how do you get it when you need it? You must let them know. How ? You have got to tell them. You can not assume that they will know. Talk to your mate and let them know when your in need of their attention. Express to them what your needs are. So they can attend to your needs. Don't be angry if they don't get it right away. Keep in mind this is new to them . So tell them what you want, show them what you want. So they can please you as you please them.Work together so you can fix what has gone overlooked.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
We say that we do all these things because we love our mates. Nobody is doubting your love. But what ever happened to the self love, or caring about what is important to you or your needs. Well , I'll tell you what happened. It's the same thing that happens when you become a parent. Your protection, admiration,love and security for them becomes your main focus. Everything else including self preservation and personal needs becomes obsolete. Because you will do anything and everything to make sure their needs are met and that they are happy.
But what happened when you look in a mirror? You feel like you have given everything to the people you care about. But what about your needs. You have spoiled your love ones so much. That because you show such joy in their happiness. Nobody even notice that you are unhappy.Nobody even notices that you are in need of something. One would think that it would be easy to see, that you want and need the same love and attention that you give your mate.
So how do you get it when you need it? You must let them know. How ? You have got to tell them. You can not assume that they will know. Talk to your mate and let them know when your in need of their attention. Express to them what your needs are. So they can attend to your needs. Don't be angry if they don't get it right away. Keep in mind this is new to them . So tell them what you want, show them what you want. So they can please you as you please them.Work together so you can fix what has gone overlooked.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, March 22, 2017
Making Time
Finding time for your mate , may not be an easy task. Especially when you are both on the road. Or when you both have very demanding careers. How ever, how do you find your equilibrium ?When life is so demanding and your relationship is in need of a little rejuvenation? First, you have to always find new things to do with each other and for each other. So that the time your together will be enjoyable to both of you. Putting away cell phones and social media is a great start.
Try things like romantic showers together. Or wake them up in the morning with a little special attention. If you know what I mean. How about a cycle or 2 on a washing machine. Lots of people have made out in a movie theater. But have you 2 ever made Love at the movies. If any of these things are too risky for you.
Then might I suggest a candle light dinner and champagne for 2. Or a rendezvous in the middle of the day on your living room floor, with some music playing. I myself would like,to read some romantic poetry underneath a tree laying on a blanket with some fruit & cheese and a little wine. Trying a new recipe &cooking it in the kitchen together may do the trick. Talk about cooking something up. It's definitely a good way to spend time together.You may also want to try some sexy moves. from a Kama Sutra guide or Truth or Dare Sex games. That may also put some spice in your together time. If you have never tried this, you may also want to learn the fine art of sexy massage. All of these things can be used to put some spice and togetherness in your relationship. You will be spending that much needed time together. You will also be creating memories and adventures that you both will find enjoyment in.
The truth is anything worth having, Is worth working for. If you want your relationship to work. Then work on it together and watch it grow into something beautiful. This rule has proved over the years to be tried and true.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Try things like romantic showers together. Or wake them up in the morning with a little special attention. If you know what I mean. How about a cycle or 2 on a washing machine. Lots of people have made out in a movie theater. But have you 2 ever made Love at the movies. If any of these things are too risky for you.
Then might I suggest a candle light dinner and champagne for 2. Or a rendezvous in the middle of the day on your living room floor, with some music playing. I myself would like,to read some romantic poetry underneath a tree laying on a blanket with some fruit & cheese and a little wine. Trying a new recipe &cooking it in the kitchen together may do the trick. Talk about cooking something up. It's definitely a good way to spend time together.You may also want to try some sexy moves. from a Kama Sutra guide or Truth or Dare Sex games. That may also put some spice in your together time. If you have never tried this, you may also want to learn the fine art of sexy massage. All of these things can be used to put some spice and togetherness in your relationship. You will be spending that much needed time together. You will also be creating memories and adventures that you both will find enjoyment in.
The truth is anything worth having, Is worth working for. If you want your relationship to work. Then work on it together and watch it grow into something beautiful. This rule has proved over the years to be tried and true.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Always Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, March 8, 2017
Lets Talk Like Adults: GETTING WHAT YOU WANT THREE (3) THE HARD WAY
Lets Talk Like Adults: GETTING WHAT YOU WANT THREE (3) THE HARD WAY: When your trying to please your mate some people will go to great length. Just to please them. I mean just through cau...
GETTING WHAT YOU WANT THREE (3) THE HARD WAY
When your trying to please your mate some people will go to great length. Just to please them. I mean just through caution to the wind. Some people are just a little more reserved. There are also the ones who only talk about it as a turn on. You know , just to get things a little spicy in the boudoir. But when you open some doors you can't always close them back.
I'm a firm believer that there are some things you should do before you are married and some things should be left until marriage. But everybody dose not share my view. But moving on . A candy bar asked a cupcake if she has ever partied with another cupcake? She said yes in my younger days why do you ask? He said I heard you did I just wanted to see if you would be honest about it. The cupcake then ask if the candy bar had ever unwrapped another candy bar? He yell NO!!!. What kind of candy bar do you think I am? She said relax I was just asking.Moving on , The (2) went on to dating for a few years. A few times during the smashing of sweets he ask if she would bring another cupcake into their show of passion. She found that it turned him on if she said yes. Just like the thought of somebody watching them smash sweets.
Now years later after marriage the cupcake still is being asked when will she bring another cupcake to party with them . The candy bar says he does not want the other cupcake. He just want to watch them smash sweets. But history has shown her that bringing a cupcake into a sweets party with your main candy bar. To many things can go wrong after the fact. When its somebody your dating its one(1) thing. But when it's your main lover or your spouse you can't help but feel some kind of way or If your not enough for your mate. Or is this a way for them to smash somebody new. Or giving your mate too much room to invite somebody else to a smash sweet party. So she has been stalling on the situation. She wants to give him a new adventure. But not sure if this is it.
So if you are contemplating the (3) The Hard Way. Remember that. Not all relationships can handle having a 3rd person to a smash party. Sometimes you may need to make sure that your relationship is secure and strong. Before you add any sweets to your party. Not saying that a strong solid relationship can take a third party. But if it's not, adding another person to your relationship is not going to make the relationship better. It may make things worst.
As always have sex responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
I'm a firm believer that there are some things you should do before you are married and some things should be left until marriage. But everybody dose not share my view. But moving on . A candy bar asked a cupcake if she has ever partied with another cupcake? She said yes in my younger days why do you ask? He said I heard you did I just wanted to see if you would be honest about it. The cupcake then ask if the candy bar had ever unwrapped another candy bar? He yell NO!!!. What kind of candy bar do you think I am? She said relax I was just asking.Moving on , The (2) went on to dating for a few years. A few times during the smashing of sweets he ask if she would bring another cupcake into their show of passion. She found that it turned him on if she said yes. Just like the thought of somebody watching them smash sweets.
Now years later after marriage the cupcake still is being asked when will she bring another cupcake to party with them . The candy bar says he does not want the other cupcake. He just want to watch them smash sweets. But history has shown her that bringing a cupcake into a sweets party with your main candy bar. To many things can go wrong after the fact. When its somebody your dating its one(1) thing. But when it's your main lover or your spouse you can't help but feel some kind of way or If your not enough for your mate. Or is this a way for them to smash somebody new. Or giving your mate too much room to invite somebody else to a smash sweet party. So she has been stalling on the situation. She wants to give him a new adventure. But not sure if this is it.
So if you are contemplating the (3) The Hard Way. Remember that. Not all relationships can handle having a 3rd person to a smash party. Sometimes you may need to make sure that your relationship is secure and strong. Before you add any sweets to your party. Not saying that a strong solid relationship can take a third party. But if it's not, adding another person to your relationship is not going to make the relationship better. It may make things worst.
As always have sex responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, March 1, 2017
Side Dish Or Main Course You Decide
When you first start out dating a person it's so much fun wouldn't you say? Think about it, you do things and put up with things that in general you would not. Just think about it for a minute before you flat out say no. You do because you have a goal right? Sure I'm right. Just stop and think about it for a few. It may be many different reasons why. But the truth is that you will put up with a lot if you are trying to meet a goal. If it's a long term goal or a short term goal. You do have a goal.
For some it can be dinner in a nice restaurant that may not be all that. So why spend your money if you don't have to. Maybe they look like they might give Blazzzing head. It could be a company party that you don't want to show up to without a date. Or a gathering with friends or family. Any way what ever it is. You needed a date.
Why don't we make it a little more interesting . You are out doing a few errands and you meet this hunk of beautiful Cupcake or a Candy bar. Everything about this person says you must have it. I'm just saying the scent of them sparked a nostalgia. Even if it's only for one night. Or a few hours, what ever the case maybe you know it looks good enough for the right now.
Now for some of us. It's now or never. For some of us it's get in where you fit in. Others say if it was left unattended, they must not know the value. Or I will take what is available for now. Just to see how far it can go. Even if you have somebody all ready. Then We have they few that simply say . I've had my day in the spotlight.It may look good but that is all I will do and that is LOOK.
But this is for the people that do more than look. This is for the few people that like to sample the buffet table display if you will. Your only going to sample it.So what do you care if it has been promised to somebody else. You don't want a big piece just a little taste. Now before you get to savor the first taste you find yourself getting another and another taste. Now look what you have done. Now you are starting to get cravings. You got to have it. Regardless what is going on. One way or another you got to have it. You know how it goes from here. They are not all of that there are a lot of people who can do what they do . Make me feel like they did.Besides they where just something to do in the heat of the moment. But if that is the case . Then why are you still trying to get them one more time?
Even if you had a understanding. Then why do you still have the need to get a piece of their sweets. You have a whole other life now. But your still thinking about them. What they maybe doing or who they can be doing it to. Good thing you shared a moment of fulfilled erotic pleasure when you did.Think about it (SMILE) It probably will never happen again.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
For some it can be dinner in a nice restaurant that may not be all that. So why spend your money if you don't have to. Maybe they look like they might give Blazzzing head. It could be a company party that you don't want to show up to without a date. Or a gathering with friends or family. Any way what ever it is. You needed a date.
Why don't we make it a little more interesting . You are out doing a few errands and you meet this hunk of beautiful Cupcake or a Candy bar. Everything about this person says you must have it. I'm just saying the scent of them sparked a nostalgia. Even if it's only for one night. Or a few hours, what ever the case maybe you know it looks good enough for the right now.
Now for some of us. It's now or never. For some of us it's get in where you fit in. Others say if it was left unattended, they must not know the value. Or I will take what is available for now. Just to see how far it can go. Even if you have somebody all ready. Then We have they few that simply say . I've had my day in the spotlight.It may look good but that is all I will do and that is LOOK.
But this is for the people that do more than look. This is for the few people that like to sample the buffet table display if you will. Your only going to sample it.So what do you care if it has been promised to somebody else. You don't want a big piece just a little taste. Now before you get to savor the first taste you find yourself getting another and another taste. Now look what you have done. Now you are starting to get cravings. You got to have it. Regardless what is going on. One way or another you got to have it. You know how it goes from here. They are not all of that there are a lot of people who can do what they do . Make me feel like they did.Besides they where just something to do in the heat of the moment. But if that is the case . Then why are you still trying to get them one more time?
Even if you had a understanding. Then why do you still have the need to get a piece of their sweets. You have a whole other life now. But your still thinking about them. What they maybe doing or who they can be doing it to. Good thing you shared a moment of fulfilled erotic pleasure when you did.Think about it (SMILE) It probably will never happen again.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, February 22, 2017
Is It A Catch Phrase Or A Fact ? What You Don't Use You'll Loose
I know a lot of you readying this may have some strong feelings on this matter. Some of you feel that it all depends on the matter. But not for nothing you may want to do your home work on this matter . Because what you don't know . Can and will hurt you. When it comes to pleasing your mate.
Now!! some of you may say . "It's been working all this time I'm good " or " They can take what I got to give and be happy" or "If it not broke don't fix it" and the best 2 are "You don't have to if you don't want to" & "I'm not worried I'm the best you'll ever have" If your saying it or you have been hearing it. IT'S ALL WRONG !!!! If you believe the phrases than your Crazy!!!!
You can't think that on either side of the coin. Because we can't see into the future. Also there is always going to be somebody out there with more skills and knowledge than you. Who are willing to do the work and read about that thing , that you don't want to do....
Which brings us to some real facts. So grab a pin or smart phone and take some notes. It's not that candy bars are always ready for sex. Some times it's just that they are not fully satisfied. So they are waiting to finish what they started. So when the opportunity presents it's self they will be ready.To deliver on a dime, regardless who will be there to receive it.
Cupcakes are not hard to please . You must pay attention to the signs she is sending. Because if you are on the right track, her body and mouth will tell you. It only seems like work because your not enjoying the pleasure of fine cakes. But leave her alone too long and somebody will frosting her cakes.
Now sweets as a whole. If you like something and your mate is not doing it. Show them what it is you like. They may not always get it the first time. But with practice, they will more than amaze you. Now if they insist on doing it wrong or flat out don't do it .Keep in mind whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If You stop giving out more than you receive. They will come around. But if you are holding out for no real reason. Or you just think of treats as holiday foods. You may find that you have taken too long. On your delivery. Now your mate is no longer waiting for you. They have found other treats that are pleasing to them . It is of course your fault. For not talking to your mate and letting them know what you want and need. No worries. Somebody will be waiting in the wings to do the job . They will also take great pride in doing the job. I hope you all heard me.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
Now!! some of you may say . "It's been working all this time I'm good " or " They can take what I got to give and be happy" or "If it not broke don't fix it" and the best 2 are "You don't have to if you don't want to" & "I'm not worried I'm the best you'll ever have" If your saying it or you have been hearing it. IT'S ALL WRONG !!!! If you believe the phrases than your Crazy!!!!
You can't think that on either side of the coin. Because we can't see into the future. Also there is always going to be somebody out there with more skills and knowledge than you. Who are willing to do the work and read about that thing , that you don't want to do....
Which brings us to some real facts. So grab a pin or smart phone and take some notes. It's not that candy bars are always ready for sex. Some times it's just that they are not fully satisfied. So they are waiting to finish what they started. So when the opportunity presents it's self they will be ready.To deliver on a dime, regardless who will be there to receive it.
Cupcakes are not hard to please . You must pay attention to the signs she is sending. Because if you are on the right track, her body and mouth will tell you. It only seems like work because your not enjoying the pleasure of fine cakes. But leave her alone too long and somebody will frosting her cakes.
Now sweets as a whole. If you like something and your mate is not doing it. Show them what it is you like. They may not always get it the first time. But with practice, they will more than amaze you. Now if they insist on doing it wrong or flat out don't do it .Keep in mind whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If You stop giving out more than you receive. They will come around. But if you are holding out for no real reason. Or you just think of treats as holiday foods. You may find that you have taken too long. On your delivery. Now your mate is no longer waiting for you. They have found other treats that are pleasing to them . It is of course your fault. For not talking to your mate and letting them know what you want and need. No worries. Somebody will be waiting in the wings to do the job . They will also take great pride in doing the job. I hope you all heard me.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, February 15, 2017
Relationships Do Change, But Who Are You ?
Do we give too much of our self in a relationship that we forget, an in doing so that we cripple our mates ? Think about your daily activities . How often do you have to stop what your doing, to go find something or to fix something or to clean up something . Because they have made a complete mess of everything. What is so crazy about everything is that they claim to have been able to do so much before they became your mate. Why is it that when a person who was so self sufficient gets in a relationship they need their mate to do so much. Some things are so crazy when you think about it you may feel like taking a bullhorn to the head and say can you use your mind right now . I sent mine out to the cleaners. It won't be back until Monday. Even though it's only Wednesday.
When you get in a relationship whether it's romantic, personal or business. You need to still remain as individual and so should the other person or persons. Because we have all been blessed with a brain and no one brain is or should think for two or more people. It's not fair and it can be very exhausting. When you decide to date a person it is supposed to make both of you better in your own right. Not make things harder or stress full. That is one of the reasons you decide to talk to them in the first place. they appeared to be interesting and you had things in common with similar interest.
You are not supposed to lose yourself in the growth of the relationship. When that happens, you need to press pause. Rewind and find out what happened, address it ,hit rest and then press play. If you don't due these simple things you are going to have the same problem over and over again.
Getting involved with another person can be great and fun. Sharing things and doing things together and enjoying their company is all wonderful. But If your going to take aware their independents or they are going to take away yours. The relationship is going to fall and if you to ever part company . Somebody is sure going to hit bottom harder than the other person.
That being said if you are in a relationship or if you are contemplating getting involved with somebody. Make sure you pay close attention to the signal you give each other. Don't take away the one thing that makes you two be (2) different people and that is independents. There is a such thing as doing or giving too much. In the name of Love. Trust that when you do it . Your not gong to like your mate much and Your going to find yourself looking at other people. To understand you and appreciate you. When all of this could have been avoided. Don't cripple your mate.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
When you get in a relationship whether it's romantic, personal or business. You need to still remain as individual and so should the other person or persons. Because we have all been blessed with a brain and no one brain is or should think for two or more people. It's not fair and it can be very exhausting. When you decide to date a person it is supposed to make both of you better in your own right. Not make things harder or stress full. That is one of the reasons you decide to talk to them in the first place. they appeared to be interesting and you had things in common with similar interest.
You are not supposed to lose yourself in the growth of the relationship. When that happens, you need to press pause. Rewind and find out what happened, address it ,hit rest and then press play. If you don't due these simple things you are going to have the same problem over and over again.
Getting involved with another person can be great and fun. Sharing things and doing things together and enjoying their company is all wonderful. But If your going to take aware their independents or they are going to take away yours. The relationship is going to fall and if you to ever part company . Somebody is sure going to hit bottom harder than the other person.
That being said if you are in a relationship or if you are contemplating getting involved with somebody. Make sure you pay close attention to the signal you give each other. Don't take away the one thing that makes you two be (2) different people and that is independents. There is a such thing as doing or giving too much. In the name of Love. Trust that when you do it . Your not gong to like your mate much and Your going to find yourself looking at other people. To understand you and appreciate you. When all of this could have been avoided. Don't cripple your mate.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, February 8, 2017
Putting Our Gender To The Side, How Different Our We
So to test a theory verses a fact. I did a little recon, we have a lot more in common with each other than we would like to think. Or what we have been taught. Believe it or not we are very emotional and when I say that I mean, Candy bars and Cupcakes alike. But we try our best to make it seem like it's only Cupcakes. We are often portrayed to be more emotional, than our counter parts The Candy bars. We have been convinced that Candy bars are more territorial. Is it possible we could be wrong?
When we truly make love to somebody with our heart ,body and soul. When it ends for what ever the reason how it effects you says a lot about your emotional state as well as your mental state of mind. There are Cupcakes as well as Candy bars that can change their sexual mates. As often as a nail color. With no remorse regardless how long or how great the sexual experience has been. Then You have the Candy bar who the fear of getting hurt. Will not allow himself to be emotional to a Cupcake .So he changes them out like he changes his shoes.
There are the few Cupcakes and Candy bars whom, if they get your sexual pleasure. They become so controlling and possessive. So much so that you can't be friends with anybody of the opposite sex. With out their approval. That being said, they are also the ones that you always find your self explaining who people are in your life. Or the friends that you use to talk to you don't to them any more.
Cupcakes and Candy bars alike can be violent or vindictive when you split or try to slow down the relationship. You can feel like it's just moving too fast. You may even feel like your not ready or they are not ready for a relationship of this magnitude. Before you know it they have become a person that you don't even recognize.
More often than not, Cupcakes and Candy bars a like have found that the person that they met in the beginning of the relationship. Is not the same person they are when they have had them for a while. Which can cause then to stray or cause them to end the relationship. Sometimes you have to taste a few pieces of chocolates before you find a brand that taste good to you. Sometimes you have to taste a few cake mixes before you find a brand that taste good to you. All I'm asking is don't put all of them in the same box. Manufactures didn't so you could be able to tell their brands apart. You should do the same. Just a little food for thought. When you start labeling people. Remember we have more in common than you think.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
When we truly make love to somebody with our heart ,body and soul. When it ends for what ever the reason how it effects you says a lot about your emotional state as well as your mental state of mind. There are Cupcakes as well as Candy bars that can change their sexual mates. As often as a nail color. With no remorse regardless how long or how great the sexual experience has been. Then You have the Candy bar who the fear of getting hurt. Will not allow himself to be emotional to a Cupcake .So he changes them out like he changes his shoes.
There are the few Cupcakes and Candy bars whom, if they get your sexual pleasure. They become so controlling and possessive. So much so that you can't be friends with anybody of the opposite sex. With out their approval. That being said, they are also the ones that you always find your self explaining who people are in your life. Or the friends that you use to talk to you don't to them any more.
Cupcakes and Candy bars alike can be violent or vindictive when you split or try to slow down the relationship. You can feel like it's just moving too fast. You may even feel like your not ready or they are not ready for a relationship of this magnitude. Before you know it they have become a person that you don't even recognize.
More often than not, Cupcakes and Candy bars a like have found that the person that they met in the beginning of the relationship. Is not the same person they are when they have had them for a while. Which can cause then to stray or cause them to end the relationship. Sometimes you have to taste a few pieces of chocolates before you find a brand that taste good to you. Sometimes you have to taste a few cake mixes before you find a brand that taste good to you. All I'm asking is don't put all of them in the same box. Manufactures didn't so you could be able to tell their brands apart. You should do the same. Just a little food for thought. When you start labeling people. Remember we have more in common than you think.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, February 1, 2017
The Aftermath
Wow, What a beautiful morning. I mean, I know it's lunch time and I just missed being late for work by a easy 10 minutes. But I just can't help thinking what a BEAUTIFUL morning it was to me and still is according to my muscles. Anytime you are still basking in the feeling, the sensation, the heart throbbing the overwhelming feeling of great girth between your thighs. Mind you it has been 6 hours 27 minutes and 13 seconds. Since he was between the soft cushion that lays between my thighs.
I said it was a beautiful morning. I can still hear Al Green playing in my head and the sounds of the rain coming down outside my window. Although I swear I see sunshine through the raindrops . If you have never had morning sex let me tell you . Morning sex can be the cross between a sprint and a marathon. Depending on the athlete and the endurance.
How do you weigh 1000 Roses to 1000 strokes of passion which has left you lightheaded and full of emotion. Making your heartbeat more than 4,800 times in a hour. He asked if I was ready?
I answered Yes. Because I thought I was. Then he replied that the sex he was going to give me. Was going to make time stand still.
I said it was a beautiful morning. Laying in front of this amazing specimen of a man. The great bar of chocolate. Whom was about to make it's grand entrance into my world of ecstasy. Placed tender kisses all over my body. He whispered , your skin is so soft and warm. Show me where to touch you deeply, and all the places I will go. This love I'm going to give you will be like no other you have ever had. He gently spread both my legs wide open and put his head into the part of my world of passion. Talk about a talent, a skill, If done right would send you into heaven. To be kissed from your eyelids to your earlobes, to your lips, to your neck, to your breast and turned over. As slow kisses moved down the small of your back. To your round mounds of your plumped ass.
To only be turned again and tongue F^*". Oh shit what was that??? Am I paralyzed? The intensity of his extreme pleasure. When he reached into my palace he said. I want you so full of me, that when you close your eyes. You can see your full of Me. As I burst from the strength of his comfortable curve. My sweet nectar of sex berries ran like heated honey.
I said it was a beautiful morning. Make no mistake, I have had Great Lovers. But nothing like this. Once you have had Great, good or OK will never do. He only wanted to broaden my world of ecstasy he said. So relax and enjoy as I take you in & out of consciousness. It's almost morning, I will give you my best. Soon you'll be fast asleep. Was the last thing I heard. Until The Good Morning Kiss. Now I'm here and I can not wait to let him in again. It was a Beautiful Morning.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
I said it was a beautiful morning. I can still hear Al Green playing in my head and the sounds of the rain coming down outside my window. Although I swear I see sunshine through the raindrops . If you have never had morning sex let me tell you . Morning sex can be the cross between a sprint and a marathon. Depending on the athlete and the endurance.
How do you weigh 1000 Roses to 1000 strokes of passion which has left you lightheaded and full of emotion. Making your heartbeat more than 4,800 times in a hour. He asked if I was ready?
I answered Yes. Because I thought I was. Then he replied that the sex he was going to give me. Was going to make time stand still.
I said it was a beautiful morning. Laying in front of this amazing specimen of a man. The great bar of chocolate. Whom was about to make it's grand entrance into my world of ecstasy. Placed tender kisses all over my body. He whispered , your skin is so soft and warm. Show me where to touch you deeply, and all the places I will go. This love I'm going to give you will be like no other you have ever had. He gently spread both my legs wide open and put his head into the part of my world of passion. Talk about a talent, a skill, If done right would send you into heaven. To be kissed from your eyelids to your earlobes, to your lips, to your neck, to your breast and turned over. As slow kisses moved down the small of your back. To your round mounds of your plumped ass.
To only be turned again and tongue F^*". Oh shit what was that??? Am I paralyzed? The intensity of his extreme pleasure. When he reached into my palace he said. I want you so full of me, that when you close your eyes. You can see your full of Me. As I burst from the strength of his comfortable curve. My sweet nectar of sex berries ran like heated honey.
I said it was a beautiful morning. Make no mistake, I have had Great Lovers. But nothing like this. Once you have had Great, good or OK will never do. He only wanted to broaden my world of ecstasy he said. So relax and enjoy as I take you in & out of consciousness. It's almost morning, I will give you my best. Soon you'll be fast asleep. Was the last thing I heard. Until The Good Morning Kiss. Now I'm here and I can not wait to let him in again. It was a Beautiful Morning.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly.
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, January 25, 2017
Mixed Signals
Trying to keep everything in order. In your personal life as well as your professional life. When in the middle of everything you for get that your lover is also your friend. It happens more often than one might think. Some times you also may have to lose your lover. In order to find out that they where your friend. Some couples have had to marry a person before they find out that their union was not meant to be. Why do that ? If you would stop letting your sexual attraction lead you and let your mind and spirit take over. There will be less mistakes made.
If you start off a relationship with gifts and promises. Then the person your doing this to will think that this is the way the relationship will always be. If you are getting together like rabbits every time your together . Then they will always expect for you to perform regardless how many things change in your life.
With that being said, What signals do you give off . Now that you have your mate. Are you two being considerate of their feeling and their needs? Are you making how you feel known? Are you clear when you are expressing your needs? Or when you want to be affectionate? If your sending mixed and crazy signals , how can you expect them to understand or be able to respond to your needs.
Cupcakes if you want your Candy bar to work what are you doing to put them in the mood. Candy bars if you want your Cupcake to be share her frosting you should make sure you are ready. The signals you give off pay a big part in what happens in your relationship. As much as how you communicate with you . So check into how you act and react to your mate. Watch what signs you give. Do you give a positive or a negative signal. If you take a minute and look you may find that you give off mixed signals.If that is the case, that would explain why you two are not moving on the same accord.
So pay attention to the signals you are sending your mate. Talk to them and tell them what you want and need not what you think they want to hear. As always be good to yourself and others, treat people the way you want to be treated. Have sex responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
If you start off a relationship with gifts and promises. Then the person your doing this to will think that this is the way the relationship will always be. If you are getting together like rabbits every time your together . Then they will always expect for you to perform regardless how many things change in your life.
With that being said, What signals do you give off . Now that you have your mate. Are you two being considerate of their feeling and their needs? Are you making how you feel known? Are you clear when you are expressing your needs? Or when you want to be affectionate? If your sending mixed and crazy signals , how can you expect them to understand or be able to respond to your needs.
Cupcakes if you want your Candy bar to work what are you doing to put them in the mood. Candy bars if you want your Cupcake to be share her frosting you should make sure you are ready. The signals you give off pay a big part in what happens in your relationship. As much as how you communicate with you . So check into how you act and react to your mate. Watch what signs you give. Do you give a positive or a negative signal. If you take a minute and look you may find that you give off mixed signals.If that is the case, that would explain why you two are not moving on the same accord.
So pay attention to the signals you are sending your mate. Talk to them and tell them what you want and need not what you think they want to hear. As always be good to yourself and others, treat people the way you want to be treated. Have sex responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Wednesday, January 11, 2017
So You Think You Know Your Lover, Wanna Bet !!!
People always amazed me, They get so full of themselves. Like when they even give the false impression that they know their lover better than anybody else . But the truth is that often they are blind to so many things about their lover. What do I mean by that? It's simple, In so many relationships people hold back a lot. Everything from things that happen in their childhood. To what they are most afraid of. To their deep down dark questions and desires about sex. Are they totally satisfied sexually with their lover?. Whether or not they are capable of cheating on their current lover / have they ever cheated on their lover?. Or if they think about having extra curriculum sexual experiences?
Here is a little truth their secret lover usually know more about their part time lover. Than the main lover or spouse. Now I know you think that I'm wrong. But studies have been done and proven. That it's not a mistake the percentages are astounding. Assuming you know everything about your lover would prove to be a grave mistake on your part. Now don't get to besides yourself and run off and start mouthing off a lot of questions to your lover. That is not the way to bridge the gap or get the questions answered. Your mate has to feel in their heart and soul a great sense of trust, non-judgmental, understanding and unconditional love.
There must also be a form of openness and exposure of emotions on your part. Nobody wants to be totally exposed with emotions so in order to protect feelings. People keep them hidden from people that can use them as a weapon against them later. It usually is the one that holds their heart in their hands.
So do you know everything about your lover? The answer is No. And unless you are willing to open your soul and expose everything that makes you who you are . You will never know everything about your lover and who would want to? You have enough to worry about inside of your self. So If they share with you be thankful and respectful. Don't push or dig to hard. You may not like where it leads you.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
Here is a little truth their secret lover usually know more about their part time lover. Than the main lover or spouse. Now I know you think that I'm wrong. But studies have been done and proven. That it's not a mistake the percentages are astounding. Assuming you know everything about your lover would prove to be a grave mistake on your part. Now don't get to besides yourself and run off and start mouthing off a lot of questions to your lover. That is not the way to bridge the gap or get the questions answered. Your mate has to feel in their heart and soul a great sense of trust, non-judgmental, understanding and unconditional love.
There must also be a form of openness and exposure of emotions on your part. Nobody wants to be totally exposed with emotions so in order to protect feelings. People keep them hidden from people that can use them as a weapon against them later. It usually is the one that holds their heart in their hands.
So do you know everything about your lover? The answer is No. And unless you are willing to open your soul and expose everything that makes you who you are . You will never know everything about your lover and who would want to? You have enough to worry about inside of your self. So If they share with you be thankful and respectful. Don't push or dig to hard. You may not like where it leads you.
As Always Have Sex Responsibly
Love Stormy Weather 69
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